It is what it is.

I saw an old friend today and we were talking about really terrible catch phrases. We both have separately come up with the phrase "It is what it is" as the most frustrating one ever. What does that even mean?

• It is what it is. I can't change it.
• It is what it is. I'll never change.
• It is what it is. No one cares enough to change it.
• It is what it is. The problem is too big and I am too small.

What a bummer. Whatever we are doing...whatever you are doing today or tonight or tomorrow, don't say "It is what it is." Trust me, it's the worst. Don't give up hope, especially in yourself. There have been some critical moments in my life where I have given up on myself, and it is a dark, dark place to be. I don't recommend it.

And if you don't believe me, check in with the Michael Scott school of management. "Somehow, I manage."

-Liz